AMERICA SUPPORTS YOU CONFERENCE CALL
with
SSgt. Kimberling and Trish Benefield
All I can say is "WOW!!" I am 'so' thrilled to be working with SSFOA and LEEP, because without you & these wonderful Organizations, I would not have been afforded such an OUTSTANDING opportunity to speak with one of our Heroes!! (They 'are' Heroes, too - don't let them kid you - ha!!)
First of all, the Staff Sergeant gave us some background: He has been in the Military for 17 years (Army) in Security Forces - and when he says 'security forces,' he not only means Military duties, but 'dual' duties: Law Enforcement duties, and Infantry duties. He has been married for 13 years, and has a 7-year old son who loves hunting, fishing, and being outdoors!! His wife still loves him, and thinks he's cute, but doesn't listen to him - lol!!
He has deployed a total of 1,197 days - and 997 of those days were spent in a combat zone. His last deployment was in 2007 in Afghanistan training the ANP (Afghanistan National Police). He and 22 of his Unit actually lived in 'town' - not in the FOB (Forward Operating Base) - they lived in an Afghan building, used the Afghan showers, ate the Afghan food, and said conditions are 'not' all that great. They are much better than a year ago, but they still have a Long way to go as far as a country in building itself UP!! (As he was very quick to point out, 'we' as America didn't become a country overnight - it took over 10 years - so, he's very pleased with the progress being made in Iraq and Afghanistan - he reiterated that we should realize it will take years for them to get better) The bigger cities, such as Kabul and Kandahar, are terrific, and seem affluent - it's the farmers and low-income families who have a tough time......... ......plus, the farmers battle not only the taliban and other vicious groups, but drug traffickers, as well. In fact, the SSgt. and his Unit confiscated over 117 million dollars in narcotics over a period of just '6 months!!' (The drug traffickers are still quite bad there)
His work with the ANP helped in building a wonderful rapport with the people - in fact, he gave an example of complete trust: An Afghani police lieutenant's brother's wife was due to give birth, and the baby was breach - based on the trust they had with the nationals, they were able to go into Baghdad Country (they took one Afghan as security with them) to help with the birth. He said knowing that the men are not to look at the women in the first place, the fact they put her life 'and' the baby's life in their hands said a LOT!! Both mother and baby were fine, and they were all very jubilant at the birth!!
The Afghan people WANT a normalcy of Police Operations, and are very willing to be trained. In fact, they have begun 'instructing the instructors' in Kandahar & Kabul - this will help take the load off of some of our Military. He said it is like kids getting 'candy from a candy store' when a shipment of police equipment arrives for their use - he was truly grateful for our help in that respect, he said.
The people on the call with me (besides Julia at the Penagon) were: Jeanie Clifford of Back in the Saddle Bit by Bit (BITS) - they provide therapy and entertainment through horses - are in Colorado - and she is going to make her Sheriff in Denver aware of LEEP!! ;o)
Also: Chris Truhe of Summit Supports Our Troops (Summit, New Jersey) - She has a shipment of Girl Scout Cookies going out soon!!
And: Cristin Enders & Justin Reynolds of USO World - Arlington, Virginia.
SSgt. Kimberling answered their questions of what 'we' as Americans can do to help build relationships with the Iraqi and Afghanistan people - he said 'anything' you can send for their children is a wonderful thing................think of your child, and what you would want them to have for the first day of school, for instance: shoes, clothing, toothbrushes, toothpaste, etc. He said the people (fathers and mothers) are the same as us - if our children need something, we will do without for ourselves to make sure our children have something. (One example was a gentleman with holes in his shoes who wanted his child to have new shoes) Anything we do to help their families will help our Military develop a wonderful relationship with them. As far as things for the Military, the same requests pop up, he said - phone cards, boxed dvd sets, etc., for the younger set - as far as the older guys (he laughed), things like playing cards are wonderful - ha!! He said if you send a volleyball or the like, then they have to say to the younger set, "Yes, son, you have to go outside to play with that!!" He was quite the character, and nice guy!! In fact, we ran over about 5 minutes on our call!!
Thanks for allowing me to do this - it was such a Joy!!
Hugs,
Trish